When I was 190 lbs. heavier I was told “Us big girls have to stick together” by a friendly overweight banker who always greeted me with a smile and provided quick, prompt first class service. I switched banks and did not see her for several months. I needed a copy of my personal account from her bank so I called her and asked if she could provide the copy. She warmly said “Yes! It is no problem. I will make a copy now and have it ready for you when you get here.”
The next day I went to the bank. From the moment I entered the bank until I left I felt a cold silence. I saw my old friend and waved. She looked at me with a pause and put her head down then looked up at me again and turned her head around so that only the back of her head was visible. After a few minutes she approached me and said, ” …it ah… will ahhh… be just a minute”.
(All of this is true) I must have sat there for just under an hour. Finally she called me to come back to her desk where she proceeded to hand me an envelope that was sitting on her desk the entire time. She sucked her bottom lip and dryly said ” Have a… Good …Day” as she snatched her head and turned her back to me.
Some people do not want you to lose weight or get into your best shape or eat healthy and get fit. They intentionally hand you foods they know you avoid and cannot have. They will try to occupy the time you have reserved for personal fitness or meditation.
In truth, some people do not want to see your best; and they do not want you to better yourself. And this starts with home and family and spreads from there. Acceptance of this will free you from a lot of stress and strain.
You should never mistreat yourself to make anyone comfortable.
Remember to Eat Right With Good Healthy Nutrition and Proper Healthy Fitness.
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